Living a life in the Spirit
What is one of the most damaging things that we can do to any organization or people? Complain! Recently a gentleman in our church stepped up before the congregation and repented of being “critical” of the leadership and population of the church. He felt this sinful behavior needed to publicly apologized for. Later I was asked to try and explain why this had been done. I simply stated my belief that this man had been moved by his convictions to be clear of the sin of complaining. No big deal, right? Wrong, it is a huge deal. The practice of complaining is what kept Israel from entering the promised land when they first had the chance. God hates it! Yet, today, we complain like it is a sport. We gather together to have group complaint sessions and even complain about each others complaints. Enough already.
Our society is so deeply fractured and divided today that it seems impossible to ever reach any form of consensus on anything. Why is this? Selfishness. We have grown into a self-serving, me first group of whining brats who refuse to be happy if we don’t get “our” way. Look at all of the political wrangling going on over who has the best idea or which “party” is the “right” party. Quite frankly the whole thing makes me sick! But, what turns my stomach the most is when it is standard operating procedure in the Christian church.
Last January, I released a book titled “The Key of Forgiveness”. This book was written to the church with the message that we are commanded to live a life in forgiveness. When God told me to write it, I was struggling with many areas of unforgiveness in my own life. I was frequently bitter, and generally selfish in my way of doing things. The process of writing that book forced me to make several wholesale changes in my personal philosophy regarding my relations with people and God. Through this I gained this important revelation: It is impossible to truly walk in the “Spirit” when you are constantly bitter.
What does this mean? Bitterness is the byproduct of selfishness. Selfishness is one of the straightest paths to sin. A selfish person is primarily concerned with their own we being and only looks to aid or give to others when it has some form of reciprocal benefit to them. In my life’s experience, a selfish person is also a chronic complainer. This one I know all to well as it was my modus operandi for many years. The problem with all of this is, again, that God hates it. If you don’t believe me, check out Exodus ch 11 and 13, God really hates complaining.
So I said all of that to bring you to the actual point of my rant. There is a better way. If you are unhappy with a situation or person in your life, don’t complain – PRAY!. God has shown me that if we can elevate ourselves up from our fleshly lusts and selfish motivations, we will be better able to hear God and know His will for anything in our life. Complaining about something is a flesh and lust driven program. Praying about it requires us to put down our own agenda so that we may know God’s purpose.
Imagine this scenario; A certain leader in your organization seems to be erring in how they are handling a specific issue (you can plug anyone and any thing here). You, of course, have a better plan or way to approach the situation. Since this person is in a position of authority, you now have a dilemma. If you start to “speak up “, you may put yourself at risk of being insubordinate. Here is the place where you must put down your own thoughts and desires to handle things and go to God. As you elevate yourself from the flesh realm and move into the spirit realm, you can now seek to hear God’s voice in the matter. God will ALWAYS have the right answer. If we were to make this our mode of operation, I am convinced we would have far fewer “issues” and significantly more unity. How much more effective would your pastor’s preaching be if he could focus on the larger issues that God places before him when he isn’t constantly being bombarded with the petty dealings of a complaining congregation. I am further convinced that if we actually let God lead us and stopped trying to do it all on our own, our pastors and leaders would “miraculously” improve and become great pastors and leaders, without our expert knowledge having set them straight. This works in any area of life be it church, family, work or even (dare I say) politics.
As you learn to elevate yourself to living in that realm of the spirit, you will also have an increased awareness of what God is calling you to do. With more of the body of Christ performing the functions they are actually called to, the body can properly grow and make a real change in the world.
How can this be done? It is as easy as learning to forgive as Jesus forgave. Forgiveness is the key to walking in the spirit. Forgiveness doesn’t complain, gripe, moan or feel compelled to always make “needed corrections” in people. It just forgives and releases to God the issue. God is always faithful to properly handle everything, we need to always let Him. If you struggle with unforgiveness, you need to read all Matthew 18 and see what Jesus had to say about it. You can also find many good books on the subject (even mine). It is vital for anyone’s spiritual health and walk with God to understand and implement living a life of forgiveness.
A life in forgiveness is a life in the spirit.
Just a thought, Glenn
